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3 Resolutions That Will Help You Find Love This Year
It’s almost the New Year. As the most cliché saying goes, “New Year, New You.” This year, make that cliché stand true and change your life with love. As the champagne glasses clink and the sparkling ball drops, pick these three resolutions to help you find love in the New Year. Follow them in 2016, and you’ll be bound to find that perfect someone counting down to your kiss at midnight on the next New Year’s Eve.
Be open. It’s important to be open to meeting new people and putting yourself in new situations in order to find love. Positive energy is attractive and something others can feel around you and typically gravitate towards. Stick to the saying, “don’t judge a book by its cover” and open yourself up to new people and experiences in 2016.
Be confident. Only 2% of women think they are beautiful and 90% want to change at least one aspect of their physical appearance, according to Confidence Coalition. It isn’t only women who suffer from lack of confidence, men feel the pressures of being considered attractive and lack confidence in themselves as well. Instead of looking in the mirror and seeing flaws, look at how much beauty stares back at you. Studies have shown that being confident will lead to a better dating life!
Get rid of your baggage. Take all the attachments and leftover feelings about your ex and toss them out the window. Whether you realize it or not, you may be struggling with dating because your sub-conscious is constantly comparing your date to your ex. Let go of baggage and jump feet first into the dating scene in 2016 and once you do, you’ll be ready to find the love of your life.
Make 2016 the year of love. The more open, confident and baggage-free you are, the more chances you have to fall in love. By following these three New Year’s resolutions you’ll not only have a better chance at finding love, but it will make you a better person overall. Me and the rest of the It’s Just Lunch Houston team hope you have a happy and healthy New Year filled with love!
By Christi Schreckengost, Matchmaker and Dating Expert
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